We had a reunion with my high school friends early this year and had our fourth year adviser join us. Nine years have passed since we’ve graduated but it seems like nothing has changed in terms of the relationships that we have built over the years.
We are now in our mid-twenties and issues regarding marriage and what not are the main topics. I’ve tried to evade such discussions because I guess I still have yet to decide what kind of person to marry in the future. But my teacher has taught me again something worth keeping.
Our adviser, whom I considered not only our Physics teacher but life’s mentor as well, shared his experience in knowing whether or not that person is the right one for you.
He said that you can determine whether he/she is that person that you want to spend the rest of your life with when that person makes you feel comfortable and doesn’t make you feel insecure. You can be yourself and won’t be afraid of showing the true you, in other words. He said that you would feel safe being around him/her. You are guaranteed that that person’s attention belongs to you alone and not to someone else who passes by, makes the head of that person turn and that person you’re with realizes that you are less pretty.
Just a thought…
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acheche…Nice one Analou